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Your Truth

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Your feelings are your truth. Truth, unless it's your own personal truth, still remains untrue. In other words, if you believe in it, if you don't resonate with it, if it doesn't feel right in your own heart, it is not your truth. Falling in love is beautiful, it's the man's highest honor to receive the emotions and love of his woman. It should be protected appreciated and nurtured. It's something that you'd be happy about but not something that should define you. It should be a blessing in your life, not a burden. All intimate relationships have the beginnings of casual love affairs. It's simply not only never ended, but continued to expand under the constant and consistent efforts of all involved. Always make sure that the people who you fall in love with are reciprocating through their actions, not just their words. Being in love and being loved by someone who is in love with you is a gift that makes life even better than it already was. If you are si...

Preference

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 It is surprising that a grown man can often adjust his judgment based on the opinion of others. Such men have little bias and are often viewed as inauthentic. The environment in which we live makes us who we are. A broken man, when brought to a brighter environment, can fix himself, and a good man, when descended into a bad environment, will likely become a bad person. But this all depends on how the person takes it. We should try to surround ourselves with brighter people, people who are smarter than us, and most importantly, people who are capable of pointing out our flaws. Praises and compliments can be of help to us temporarily, but they will not push us to the next level. The people who mock us, who criticize us, even to the point of deep embarrassment, are actually the ones we should be hanging out with and be friends with.

Fallen in Love

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            The reason I've fallen in love with you Every day I think about you. At home, at work, in the subway... whenever and wherever I go. And I'm not exaggerating. Sometimes I ask myself, what you're doing, what you're thinking, where you are, how you are when you'll return home, why do you do the things that you do, what makes you happy, what makes you sad, etc. At the restaurant where we go for lunch at work, there are beautiful waitresses. And whenever I look at them, they remind me of you. They look like you and they work like you, but I don't understand why you're always there in front of me. I realize how special you are to me. You are so unique and I just want to be a part of your life, and you as part of my life.

Expectations

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  We, human beings, are drawn to the concept of abstractness. Curiosity and  wonderment  are engraved in our DNA. Look at the world that we've built. Without those essential qualities, none of what we see today could actually be tangible or even just imaginable. Therefore the more mysteriousness there is, the more attractive and appealing things seem to be, and that will create the incentive in our mind for us to start a journey of  exploration . This concept is true in every aspect of life. Whether it is academic conduct, science, relationship, affection, no matter what it is, all share a common matter of endless  abstraction . Though one must say that is very misleading. It ain't endless. We stop exploring when things are clear enough and when it has  no further value  for us to keep going. For example, physicists stop at the atomic level of the universe even though they know that is not the end, which they all agree on. The question t...